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Dating advice for men

Men, I know some of you are probably questioning why you shouldtake dating advice from someone, who for all you know, could be some guy who has never spoken to a woman and is probably just some weirdo who has nothing better to do. Well you’re right… nah I’m just playing, you’re wrong. I’m not going to say that I’ve been with over 100 women and I’m a player and I never get rejected because none of those are true. Everyone gets rejected, EVERYONE. I haven’t been with over 100 women, and I’m not a ‘player’.

But I am a guy who has had experiences with women, good experiences, who has been told by multiple women that I would make a great boyfriend/husband – even married women have said that to me and no they’re not my relatives, that would be weird. I’ve even been told I’d make a great father and Ive had quite a few passes made at me by married women. I ran. Don’t do it. So, I’d say that I have had great experiences with wonderful women but that’s not the point here.

The real shit is, does what I say actually work? The answer is, not always, but most of the time. Guys, the advice I give you here isn’t so you can get laid. This is on how to approach, date and treat women so that you can have something going for you. That is the key to having good experiences for both you and the women you interact with.

My dating advice can apply to casual flings but it will mainly be for meaningful situations, not to say that casual flings can’t be meaningful. There are quite a few things I’ll give you advice about such as approaching women, asking for a date, going on a date and what to do, texting, moving forward and much more. Now, the initial approach and texting part of this guide can apply to casual flings as well as all other types of relationships, but the majority of the guide will be about maintaining a good experience with someone you like. So keep your dick in your pants and read this shit with an open mind. Trust me, its good shit.

I’ll tell you about talking to women, treating them nicely, and maintaining your status with them and more. You’ll learn about approaching, texting/talking, asking for a date, what to do/say on a date, moving forward, and relationship advice. This will work MOST of the time provided that you have a basic surface level of factors already covered. What I mean by basic surface level factors is things like being well groomed, and looking decent, and not like a fucking shithead who doesn’t know what soap is. Be well groomed, and look sharp. Have some basic manners and don’t go speaking slang that nobody fuckin understands whatsoever.

Alright men, I’ll start with giving you some general statements about women. I can’t say for certain that these apply to ALL women because I’m not a woman but from what I’ve been told by the women in my life, women I’ve been with romantically and as friends, I know at least a decent bit about what I’m saying. These statements are to help you have a basic understanding of what to expect with MOST women, not all. Nothing I say will ever apply to all women because they’re not all the same. But can apply to most. Like for example, not all women like being told they’re beautiful but most do - remember that one.

Remember, I’m here to give you advice and guide you but I’m not going to be the guy in the van whispering through headphones telling you what to say on your date. Unless you want me to whisper in your ear. That’ll cost you money. I’m expensive. Yes, I’m joking, jeez have a sense of humor.

This means, that I’ll tell you the general advice and HOW to apply it but you must combine this advice with who you are as a person, as everyone is different, and say it in your own way.

For example, I’ll give you dating advice on HOW to talk in certain situations that may occur on a date but I won’t tell you WHAT to say because that is where the – who you are – part comes in and you must make it all NATURAL and not scripted. I’m naturally funny, so if you are the same and I tell you that you need to compliment her a certain way on the date, this means that the HOW you compliment her should be funny or playful because that’s who you are naturally so it doesn’t seem scripted at all but WHAT you’re going to say depends on you. I’ll give you more specific examples later.

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About Women

Whatever I tell you about women is what I’ve learned and been told by women. This doesn’t mean that this applies to all women because not all women are the same. But from what I’ve heard and been told, it can apply to women generally.

First, women want to be heard. Now some of you probably going to say some shit like, ‘but they talk all the time’. Maybe they just want to share their day with you. They want to be heard. That’s one of the ways women connect with someone. It’s like, when guys talk shit to each other/banter, that’s how we connect. Same way women like to have chats and if you can just show them that, ‘yea, I hear you’, you’re already in the good books.

When I say hear them, I mean like actually REPLY; ask questions about what they say, react to it, not just, ‘uh huh, yea totally, oh that’s nice’, but like actually listen. In fact, here’s a tip - if you tell her something/ask her something related to a topic she talked to you about earlier that day or earlier that week, watch how radiant she’ll become because you actually made her feel heard.

Women communicate quite a bit because they’re much more emotionally intelligent than men. This is true. That’s why they make such good people when it comes to caring for someone. You know how they say; a person wears their heart on their sleeve? That’s what women do, they’re much more open with you about things. Obviously, this often scares guys away because guys take it as something else but if you just take the time to listen, you’ll actually realize what she’s really saying and have better communication with her.

Women like compliments but try to be unique and not use the generic ones. Women are beautiful, so they hear that all the time but if you actually take the time to notice something specific, something she put effort into, like her nails or her hair, that’s where you’ll make yourself be different from the other guys. We’ll talk more about this in the later parts of the advice.

This is just the gist of it all. If I had to talk about women in one section, that’s the only section I’d be working on and I’d probably die of old age before I could finish it. So as I talk about the rest of the advice, I’ll be telling you more about women as it progresses.